Raising young children is often the most difficult time period in a relationship. Couples think they should just wait until their children are older before they reconnect with each other. The opposite is true! Even though it's difficult, this is the best time to build a new relationship with your partner, which creates a happier home life, increased parenting teamwork, better sex and more freedom.
Many couples with children in long term relationships feel less than great about their sex lives. Tuala helps individuals and couples move past the embarrassment of getting help, so they can learn to have amazing sex, connection, and feel good in their ‘middle aged’ bodies. She also help parents who feel overworked and disconnected to learn to work together as a team both as parents AND as partners. Being connected as a team helps all aspects of family life and partnership. Together you can regain a sense of humor, adventure, and love.
Maybe you have one or more of these issues:
You and your partner put on a happy face for the world but at home you are struggling to talk honestly and openly, and perhaps you feel distant.
Your sex life is boring and you often just want to get it over with when you do have sex.
One partner wants sex more (or way more) than the other.
You both are either on your cell phones, working, doing chores or watching Netflix every night after the kids go to sleep.
You feel like you just don't have the energy for any sex much less great sex.
One or both partners have trouble prioritizing the relationship or the romance.
You want to explore opening your relationship or trying something adventurous.
You feel like you have lost your spark
During your coaching session (for a couple or an individual) Tuala will help you identify your blocks and desires, and help you make a practical plan for a creative, connected sex life that will give you energy rather than deplete you. If you want to focus instead on your parenting teamwork, she can help you create a plan together to balance partnership and parenting. This is attainable, and most couples do not need years of counseling to get there.
Tuala also works with clients for goal attainment (any goal), career change and organizing their homes to support their parenting goals.